Our Projects

Families of neurodivergent and disabled children often face long waits, unclear pathways, and fragmented support. Many reach out for help before there is a diagnosis, plan, or professional involvement, while stress, isolation, and financial pressure continue to build.

STRM’s projects exist to bridge that gap.

We provide early, preventative support, practical guidance, and trusted peer connection, helping families feel informed, supported, and less alone before difficulties escalate.

Our work is shaped by lived experience and grounded in what families tell us they need most, when they need it.

STRM delivers early intervention, peer support, and practical help for families of neurodivergent and disabled children across Castle Point, Rochford, and Southend.

Early Intervention & Family Navigation

Light-touch, preventative support for families at the earliest stages of need, including those who are:

  • waiting for assessment or diagnosis

  • exploring self-identification

  • unsure where to turn or what to do next

As a starting point, families are supported in understanding and accessing statutory services where appropriate. However, many services are under significant pressure, and families often experience long waits and limited contact.

We also believe that one of the most helpful first steps for any family is to read and order STRM’s Supporting Your Neurodivergent Child resource.The guide helps families understand neurodivergence, recognise strengths and needs, and begin making supportive changes at home and school, without waiting for a diagnosis.

During this time, families frequently return to STRM for peer connection, reassurance, and practical guidance , along with support to make sense of what they are noticing and to explore available options.

STRM’s holistic, family-centred support complements statutory and medical models, helping families feel informed, connected, and supported while formal pathways progress.

Our work is grounded in a strengths-based, non-deficit model that recognises abilities, radical resilience, and potential, not problems or labels.

This approach helps families access the right support at the right time, while reducing confusion, overwhelm, and escalation.

Flagship Resource

Supporting Your Neurodivergent Child

  • Reached 18,000+ families

  • Commissioned by Essex County Council and the Mid and South Essex Integrated Care Board

  • Used across 14 areas nationally

Tea & Talk – Parent and Carer Peer Support

Regular, welcoming peer support sessions offering:

  • a safe, informal space to talk openly

  • connection with others who understand

  • practical guidance and trusted signposting

  • reduced isolation, stress, and overwhelm

Online Peer Support Community

A moderated online peer support group with 2,100+ members, providing ongoing connection, reassurance, and shared understanding between sessions.

Making Sense of Neurodivergence

Autism & ADHD Parent Course

A 3-hour, parent-led course helping families move from overwhelm to clarity and confidence.

Co-produced and delivered by diagnosed Autistic and ADHD facilitators with lived experience, the session covers:

  • Sensory processing and executive functioning

  • Regulation and co-regulation strategies

  • Behaviour as communication

  • Peer discussion and practical signposting

The Impact

  • 90% arrived feeling quite or very overwhelmed

  • 74% left feeling manageable or calm

  • 100% of highly overwhelmed parents improved

  • 84% increased confidence in understanding Autism & ADHD

  • 79% felt mostly or well supported

“I came feeling very overwhelmed and left feeling calm.”

“I wish teachers in schools knew this information.”

“It makes so much more sense now.”

Practical Cost-of-Living & Family Support

Dignified, practical help for families experiencing financial pressure, including:

  • Household Support Fund guidance and access

  • Food and shopping vouchers for essential costs

  • Energy advice and support

  • Disability and carers’ benefits guidance

Children’s Activities & Community Events

Inclusive activities and community programmes for children and young people, including:

  • inclusive bouldering sessions supporting confidence, regulation, and wellbeing

  • community events and family activities

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Inclusive Programmes

Volunteer-supported inclusive programmes that provide safe, accessible, and welcoming environments.

Courses, Workshops & Resources

Accessible learning opportunities for families, including:

  • Making Sense of SEND – understanding ADHD and autism before and after diagnosis

  • Eating and Neurodivergence – supporting children around food, anxiety, and sensory needs