Your DLA Toolkit: Step-by-Step Help for Families

Next Step: Here is your DLA Sentence Bank
You can use this to help describe your child’s needs. These example sentences are designed to support you in explaining how your child’s condition affects their daily life and why they may need Disability Living Allowance (DLA).

💙 What Is the Child DLA Form?

The Disability Living Allowance (DLA) form is used to apply for extra money to help with the extra care or supervision your child needs because of a health condition, disability, or developmental difference.

It’s for children under 16 years old, and you don’t need a diagnosis to apply.


🧾 What’s in the Form?

Here’s a simple breakdown of what the form asks:

👶 About Your Child

  • Their name, age, and where they live

  • What health conditions or difficulties they have

👨‍👩‍👧 About You

  • Your name and contact details

  • How you care for your child

🩺 Health & Support

  • Any medication, treatment, or therapy your child is having

  • Any professionals involved (e.g. GP, school, paediatrician)

⏰ Day-to-Day Support

  • Help your child needs during the day (e.g. eating, dressing, calming, toileting, reminders, supervision)

  • How often and how long this help is needed

🌙 Night-Time Support

  • If your child wakes in the night, needs checking, or needs help to settle back to sleep

🚶 Getting Around

  • If your child needs help walking or staying safe outside

  • If they get anxious or need guidance

🏫 Extra Information

  • School support (like EHCP, SEN support, or a 1:1)

  • Any reports or letters you have (optional but helpful)


✍️ What You’ll Need to Do

  • Describe your child’s needs in everyday life

  • Use real examples of what support they need and why

  • Focus on what’s needed – not just what you already do


💡 Top Tips

  • Imagine someone reading this has never met your child

  • Be clear, honest, and don’t downplay anything

  • Think about what happens if you’re not there to help

  • Use sentence examples from your DLA Sentence Bank

Next Step: Use the DLA Sentence Bank

Next Steps: Tackle That Form

Filling in the DLA form can feel overwhelming — but you don’t have to do it all at once.

Take your time. Break it into small chunks. One section at a time is absolutely fine.

🧭 Tips to Keep in Mind:

  • You are the expert on your child — your knowledge matters.

  • Don’t rush — it’s okay if it takes a few days or even a few weeks.

  • Be honest and detailed — describe what life is really like, even on a tough day.

  • Use examples — “Yesterday we had to…” can be more powerful than general phrases.

  • Rest and return — take breaks when needed. You can always come back to it.

💬 “You might not finish it in one go — and that’s completely okay.”

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